
Pete Part III
Our Haflinger, Princess Cinderella, is a benevolent dictator. Her thick 13'3 hh furry self keeps everyone in line, makes sure everyone gets part of the meal and does not tolerate herd members beating up on one another. She likes things tidy and her herd polite. She does not roll in the mud, she prefers to be clean and treated with respect. She is an outstanding Head Mare for rehabilitation of troubled horses. She teaches them that people are worth tolerating, if nothing else.
Cinderella is a lovely mare and came to us after having several babies. She is very well trained but she does not appreciate the rough hands of beginners. Haflingers are also their own type of horse with a typical temperament all their own. It seems compassed somewhere among draft, pony, and Arabian which is sort of what they are. If a rider treats Cinderella with less than quiet respect or generally forces her to do something she does not want, she is powerful enough to rip the reins from your hands or your arms out of their sockets if you decide to hang on. Then, she will ignore you and do as she pleases. I love Haflingers but they are not generally a horse for truly new riders. I had intended Cinderella to be our guest/husband horse but the truth is that she is not a match for that job. She is terribly out of shape and needs conditioning to return her to a proper post-pregnancy state. I have felt horribly guilty about not being able to offer her disciplined daily exercise needed for that and not having a purpose for her, a job. I put her up for sale and received the typical strange responses, "hi i'm looking for a pony for my four year old do u think she will mind her?" Um, no. A few days after Pete arrived, I deleted her ads, she has a job. As long as good horse with no where to go end up in our pasture, she is their guide and she does her job incredibly, shockingly well.
On Pete's first day turned out with the mares, I fed everyone more than enough for dinner, spreading piles along the fence line so that they could spread out and be less likely to squabble over food. I had to blanket them for the weather and the last thing I needed was someone getting tangled in someone else's blanket.
Pete kept wandering away from his meal, sucking up leaves, exploring, and not realizing he needed to make his way back to the hay. He had been greeted by each of the mares and then checked out the terrifying new aberration of a spotted thing that smells like a horse but is the size of a dog, our pony Naught Dotty. After a while, she didn't eat him so after some chasing and a good sniff, she was deemed inedible and therefore uninteresting.
The mares ignored Pete, aligning themselves with Cinderella's behavior. In the early evening, I called my sister to tell her how Pete was doing. The mares had finished their dinner with quite a bit left on the ground. I was watching the small herd outside the window and was surprised to see Cinderella slowly moseying toward Pete. Cinderella edged toward Pete and then turned her head away a little and started grazing as soon as he became nervous. I began narrating what I was seeing to my sister, enjoying watching the copper-penny red mare with Barbie-blond hair make her way politely over to the new horse. She was able to creep up on him and eventually share breath in greeting and then pretended to graze again while Pete carefully checked her over, satisfying his curiosity. He had never been close to a mare, had been turned out with other horses all together only a handful of times.
Slowly Cinderella moved away, asking Pete to follow. When he hesitated, she continued to the hay along the fence line before looking back to where Pete stood, head held high with anxiety in the middle of the pasture. Cinderella nosed the hay around and then slowly, calmly turned around and repeated her sneaking up on the new horse routine. Pete also repeated his part from the prior scene but this time followed her all the way back to the hay. Cinderella had brought him into her herd, making sure he ate. She stayed near him, nibbling hay but mostly keeping Pete company and keeping the other mares away so he could finish his first meal outdoors in peace.
It was surprising how concretely caring and obvious her body language was. I knew she cared for her herd, treating rescue ponies like her babies. Her wrath when our Quarter Horse mare, Bella, went after Cinderella's ponies on arrival. Bella still doesn't care for ponies but she stays away from them and will show the marks of Cinderella's schooling on her sides until her new coat comes in this spring.
My husband came in the room where I was watching the adoption event in the pasture, narrating for my sister. He commented, "You've been on the phone with your sister talking about a horse for more than an hour?" I said just wait, you'll see, Cinderella is adopting him. It was like a little National Geographic drama right outside the window! We haven't owned a TV in almost 12 years. There was never a time when the content on television and the joy and work and stress in our own lives were so oppositional, I can't imagine bringing one into our lives. We don't have time or space if we wanted to and so much is so awful, I don't wish the invasion in any case.
Cinderella doesn't treat Pete like a baby, but she does treat him like a young horse who needs to be taught how to properly be a horse. He is nearly 7 but looks and acts 3. Cinderella treats him in this way, based on what he is. The next day, Pete was not standing in his costly hay pile, tossing grass everywhere, he was carefully standing at the edge of the pile careful not to spread it around where it would be lost or ground into the mud. He was still eating like he was starving but he was eating politely and under Cinderella's protection. She taught him to drink water from the seasonal pond, his place in the herd, to turn his back to the weather, and sleep under the trees. With her protection, Pete eats first and gets all his grain, he needs it, he's almost starving and Cinderella knows. Pete watches the mares carefully, imitating their body language and posture, learning how to rest on one hip while standing so he isn't so tired. He gallops up to the fence when I whistle bring hay or blankets. The Food Lady Provides, she brings us good things and offers scratches in places we can't reach.
Pete explored everything he could find, I watched him appear to attack a spiky Hemlock, thrashing around in the branches, trying to decide if it was good for eating or rubbing his itchy body on. It took a thrashing to decide it was nasty-tasting and useless. Pete popped out from the trees all spooky and full of himself. He licked rocks, rolled in the grass, and learned to use a tall maple stump as a scratching post by watching Bella. Everything went into his mouth, exploring in the only way a young horse knows. He never offers to bite any more, he has too much else to explore, he already knows what people are.
Offering stale grapes was deemed Poisoning The Horse until Pete watched the mares suck them from my fingers with alacrity. He nuzzled his grain bowl so I threw in a grape, where food belongs. He sniffed and rolled and nuzzled the grape and finally tried eating it. His head popped up, he did not hesitate to take the next offered from my hand. I'm sure he would have climbed that fence to strip every last grape from me, I was fully mugged for every treat I had. There was nothing so wonderful as a grape! Pete has never had treats.
We've had Pete with us since the last day there was a break in the rain. Today it was time to begin the process of separating off members of The Herd and putting them in sacrifice paddocks to keep our turn-out pasture from ruin. It has taken more wear and tear than I'd like keeping the horses together while Pete gets used to things but Pete needs to learn how to be a horse and it was the best I solution I could offer. He's now in his paddock with Bella, our other rehab project and family member. They need more hay than the fat ponies. I've left Cinderella turned out where he can see her for the night. Tomorrow, I will move the rest to their smaller paddock where they will return to a less generous diet! Pete will not be able to see the rest of the herd other than his companion, Bella. It's Thanksgiving day and we'll be home to monitor how he does. I hope our neighbors are not too disturbed by the horse yelling and screaming for one another that may come and that the drama does not continue long. Best to move them at breakfast, it's hard to holler for long with a mouth full of hay.
I am thankful we gave Pete a place to go, that my sister, our kind-hearted husbands, and I gave in and brought him home. The longer I've had to consider him, the more it's clear that he has just what he needs, a herd that will treat him well and guide him and enough space to be a horse. I'm also seeing an active, curious mind with bright eyes that want to spend more time learning than keeping the worried look he arrived with. He's a good horse. It amazes me that he could be treated so poorly and cast off his past so completely and readily, eager for a different life. I keep waiting for the day he may act out from his past, we've seen this before. I don't know that he will, I don't know that he won't.
We all have something to be thankful for.

We'll go home and light a fire and Yeti will come in wet and needing a bath, wanting his human to pet him and telling my by giving my arm a giant, slobbery nose shovel. And, hopefully, I'll sleep.


